Correlations.

Wavy – cool or amazing. 

‘I went through so much pain, I dealt with so much… but the moment I started to apply self love to my life, everything changed’.

Frequent utterance? Yes? I thought as much. The question is, does this habitually explored statement hold weight? Or rather, is it an empty expression laced in allurement?

Raw and rigid self love, thorough wholeness and complete individuality, are tremendously indispensable invaluable elements, that are continually neglected and dismissed instead of being an incorporated exigency. The simple truth is, a calibre of people have not yet mastered the Art of being a whole and complete individual, whilst being in a platonic or romantic partnership. On countless occasions, a substantial proportion of people encounter emotionally painful predicaments revolving around another person. Whether that relationship be a platonic relationship, or be it a romantic relationship, unhealthy circumstances produce emotional internalised pain. Questions such as, ‘Why am I not good enough?’ and, ‘If I change myself, will things get better?’ are commonly pondered on and indulged in. Sad. The issue is, wrong questions, try again.

There comes a time when positive selfishness has to be explored, in depth.

Once an individual has mastered the Art of self love, situations spin a different narrative. Pondering on your, ‘What I need to do’ checklist to keep unhealthy situations and people in your life, become a part of your past you simply seek wisdom from, but omit to implement in your present and your future. Rather a new dawn is reached, and a new mindset is luxuriated in. As for frequent meetings of disrespect, where Sway? Where?

In my mind, to myself, I am an amazeballs individual. Wavy beyond your wildest imaginations. Yes. Yes I am. Was I always super confident in myself? No. Was self love unfailingly prevalent within me? No. No it was not. It has been a journey. It still is a journey, and you know what? It will continue to be a journey. A peregrination of self discovery. I rejoice at there being a lack of another individual identical to myself. Hence I embrace my individuality immeasurably. I am blessed with gifts and talents, all the while being heavily flawed. I have evolved, and I am still evolving. I have grown, and I am sill growing. I have always maintained my stance that, you can be a masterpiece whilst still being unfinished. Self love exudes depth and beauty. Self love, wholeness and individuality… it is all so effortlessly exquisite and priceless.

There is a correlation. Look for it, and make your choice.